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Life-partners Parents: they are the source of our genetics and (mostly) determine how we grow up. When we are lucky, they enable us to get the best out of ourselves. Frequently, however, even with good intent, they tend to project their dreams on us. Our natural needs as children to love them and, particularly, to be loved by them may lead us to choices that do not match our strengths. Brothers/sisters and relatives: After our parents, if we have brothers and/or sisters, we know what it means “to fight for power”. Concretely it means that we may fight just for a toy, or for our place in the family, or for the biggest win for us: their affection and respect. Friends: play and schoolmates are usually the first ones. Few or many, they are our first network and with them we learn “how” to choose freely. Like most free choices, friendship usually twins better with “inspiration” rather than “influence”. However, as needs in life change, even the nicest friendship may show at some point limits or turn into a real conflict-zone. Colleagues: here is a group of people who can have all sort of effects on us. It is not a secret that problems at work have rarely to do with the work itself. The trouble is usually within the human factor and its uncountable, un-measurable and un-understandable effects. The higher the number of colleagues and the more diverse their background, the higher the chances of misunderstandings and conflicts.
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Dott. Ornella Carnevali -- Lebens -und interkulturelle Beratung/Life and Diversity Management Coaching -- Rathaus-Str. 43 - 53859 Niederkassel -- Germany |
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